She is a good Communicator
Communication – it is of utmost importance in any kind of relationship, it is key to a good and solid marriage. If you do not communicate your facts and problems or thoughts they will never get to reach your man. Find time to sit and talk with your husband on a daily basis even if it is for only half an hour, also be a good listener when he is talking. You don’t want your marriage on the rocks, right? So start sharing with your husband whatever is going on in your mind.
Nagging
This is one thing that men absolutely hate in most women. We know that after marriage, your husband is now part of you and you want to share your entire grievance, insecurities, problems and demands with him, but there’re limit to everything. The truth is that your nagging can create unwanted rift or can make things worse between the two of you. To choose a proper time to pick a quarrel, night is the time. Not immediately after your husband comes home from work or when he is at work. Nobody likes women nagging all the time and this nagging is such a dangerous quality that might even lead to infidelity on the husband’s part.
Surprise him
Make your man speechless with surprises planned for him. Men like surprises too like women do, men like to feel pampered once in a while. So ladies, don’t wait for some special occasion. It does not require any special day to profess your love to your man. Plan a beautiful surprise, romantic or adventurous and woo him all over again. You will see how crazily in love he is going to be with you.
Create room for Happiness
Your man’s state of mind depends on you to a larger extent. It’s your duty, ladies, to keep your husband satisfied in every manner. Keep a healthy environment at home, have good sex, cook good food, be friendly, respect your in-laws, share, discuss and find solution to problems jointly, and your husband will thank the Almighty for gifting him such a mature and understanding better half .
You let him contribute to you.
Men are meant to be the head of a home. They want to be rock stars for their women. You are able to embody being beautifully empowered and independent, while being receptive and appreciative of what your man wants to give you. You are easy to contribute to.
When in a relationship, you must bring down your hyper-individualism. Count on him for things. Really count on him, so if he doesn’t do things you want done, leave it undone. And if it does go undone, gently remind him that you are counting on him. 95% of the time, your guy simply missed the communication or forgot.
Other qualities are being responsible, get alone with spouse friend and families, selfless, Ambitious, Cleanliness, Patients, Give him space etc.
Life isn’t a fairy tale
Life is not the same as what we see in the movies or story books. Women love to dream about a lot of things; the perfect husband, the perfect home, furniture and fittings in their houses, their kitchen and so on. Reality is quite different from your dreams, sometimes even harsh too. So ladies wake up and embrace real life with what it has to offer. I advise you to come to terms with reality and accept the fact that the house, your husband, your in-laws are way different from what you had imagined, that’s when you will have a perfect marriage.
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