Wednesday 10 June 2015

Top Qualities To Look For in a Beautiful Nigerian Woman Before You Say I do.... Part 1

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One day in was my study thinking about the qualities of an amazing woman that can make her irresistible in the eyes of her dream man…… these had me to spent days researching on this topic so as to drive home some credible points. I found it interesting that when it comes to love, men want to give it to a woman who has the potential to become their wife.

These are some qualities that inspire men to give their heart fully.

 
A good woman add positively into his life
Some men have bad table manner, eating, sleeping and other bad habits. You can be of positive influence in his life and help change his bad habits. Be an example to him, the type that he himself can follow and be proud of. Be the reason he would want to change himself and be a better person, you will be surprise how he would thank you and proudly announce you for revising his personality.

She should be self-developed
Men love a woman who is intelligent, articulate, and open minded, he is going to be spending a lot of time with her, so she should be able to hold a good conversation. She should be wise, smart, and give you good advice. His women’s intuition should be strong. He should look to you all the time for advice.

She Respect her man:
If you want to be respected treat others with respect too. Haven’t we all heard ‘respect is reciprocal ’. Respect can be reflected in the way one talks and behaves. Always speak in a loving and refrain from speaking in a harsh manner. A good wife respects her hubby and she never chooses to belittle, humiliate or otherwise harm him in private nor in public. It is better to watch what you say and to think your thoughts through before speaking as it is not possible to take back the words once they have been spoken. A good wife will treat her man with respect no matter where she found herself.

She always got his back
A Good woman is supportive and also understanding especially in times of troubles. A good wife stands with her hubby through his successes and failures and provides reassurance when he's feeling down. She love and respect him no matter the conditions – supporting him in all stages of his career and life. Do not belittle your man or hurt his ego. It is often heard that ‘a wife can make a man or break a man’. Be proud of him on his accomplishments and genuinely complement him. If you do this you can expect your husband to behave with you in the same manner and also respect you more for your support.

A Woman should be trustworthy
Women should inspire trustworthiness within their men. Men if you don’t trust your woman, you’re probably making her as bitter as you’re making yourself. Not worth it. If you can’t trust her, maybe you’re not ready to date her or maybe you need to work on confidence issues within yourself. If there’s good reason not to trust her, don’t even go there. Just like any cheater, it’s bound to happen again.

She appreciates and accepts his financial status
As a woman, you are clear about your financial comfort zone, and you should be aware of your partner’s financial abilities. Appreciate and work with the little he can provide. Know his budget to run your home before you get married.
Get real with yourself. If a “simple life” to him translates as “destitute and poor” to you, you need to find someone who is on the same economic page as you. Do not go into denial because you are in love and then complain about his job choice and your shared standard of living after you are married.................

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